So, still bulging from the double-Thanksgivings on Thursday and Friday, Matthew hauled all of our Christmas boxes in on Saturday night, and started our Christmas play list from the iPod. (However, I know I'm not going to the get the "stamp of approval" on this post unless I tell you the name of the play list that Matthew so cleverly created- "My Chestnuts Are Roasting".) So we decorated, while listening to our seasonal favorites. This year decorating took on a whole new challenge! Instead of just placing our decorations around the house where they have sat for the two previous Christmases in our house, we had to have strategies. Strategies that would keep little hands and fingers off of the undoubtedly-breakable Christmas decor.
The Christmas tree also became a challenge this year. Instead of looking for "empty" spots on the tree, we strategically searched for places to put all of the soft, and unbreakable ornaments- that way they would be within the reach of a certain curious little Sophia. While the goal was for her to understand that the tree was for looking at, it was obvious that there would be some grabbing of the ornaments, as she learned about this new monstrosity taking the place of her toy box!
So the next morning we had these grand plans to "unveil" the Christmas tree for Sophia first thing in the morning. And like the excited new parents we are, we wanted to document her reaction on video. So, we get her up and out of the crib, and bring her up front. TEARS...SCREAMING, CRYING, TEARS! What could we have been thinking trying this BEFORE her bottle?! So, rewind. We bring her back to her high-chair, fix her a bottle and then try again. 2nd time was a hit. This time was exactly as we had pictured. She strolled up slowly to the tree, ever-so cautiously, and looked at the lights and ornaments, and smiled the biggest, toothless smile up her Daddy. It made all of the efforts of decorating worth every second.
That's not to say that she kept her hands off of the tree though. In fact, "No," "The tree is for looking at.", and "This is not for you." have been staple statements throughout the Taylor home. But Sophia has begun little bouts of pushing our buttons already. Before one year?! Yep...she can be a little stinker! About the 3rd night with the tree, Sophia had been told to keep her hands off of the tree several times. She had been playing with some toys and got up suddenly, put her hands behind her back, and headed right for the tree. Before getting to the tree, she kept her hands behind her, glanced over her shoulder at us, and then leaned in and bit a branch! Seriously! It was like, "Watch me, mom! I'm not TOUCHING the tree!" This was something that Matthew and I have not been ready for. We thought this came sometime closer to the age of 2. So as quickly as Sophia is picking up new things, we're picking up new parenting strategies.
Being Sophia's first Christmas, she got to participate in many of the annual traditions that happen this time of year. The first was at daycare. Sophia got to meet Santa Claus who brought her her first Christmas gift. Matthew was able to get off of work early that evening. We met at Sherlane's Daycare and we were both pretty sure that Sophia would be shedding some tears when she was placed on Santa's lap. So we were prepared for the tears and screams as she realized she was sitting on a stranger's lap. But she didn't shed a tear! Instead, she was very curious about him. She just sat, looking up at him. It was pretty funny actually. She helped us open her gift, and she absolutely loves it. It's a little snail that giggles and laughs when you push him around on the floor. She will giggle with it, and carry it everywhere!
The next tradition that Sophia got to participate in, is a Taylor Family tradition. Every year, Grandma Sue and Grandpa Whit's prayer group gets together and goes caroling to older friends and relatives. Matthew was out of town enjoying his early Christmas present, a Denver Bronco's football game, (No, he didn't travel to Denver, they were playing in Oakland, and Raiders being one of Uncle Josh's favorite teams, Carly and I sent the boys on a football day.) So Sophia and I joined in the annual caroling adventure. Grandma Sue had began singing Deck the Halls with Sophia one afternoon. She would repeat the fa-la-la-la-laaa-la-la-la-la, so we were all hopeful that she would join in singing the carols this night as well. Sure enough, at our first stop, Sophia joined in! All of us singing cracked up, and the elderly people we sang to, just thought it was adorable. Of course, they all wanted to meet her after showing off her singing skills, so we wished each and every person a Merry Christmas.
Matthew and I both grew up with a family tradition of driving around town and admiring all of the Christmas decorations that families had put on their homes. It was something that we started doing our first Christmas together, and make a point not to miss out on. So we were super excited to take Sophia on this outing this year! It couldn't have come at a better time either! Sophia had just graduated to her "big girl" car seat, which means she gets to face forward now! We weren't sure that she would understand the concept of looking out the windows and looking at the lights, but she did! And she was as excited about her sippy cup of apple juice as we were with our peppermint mochas.
Matthew and I also started a tradition of our own, something that we look forward to each year. On Christmas Eve, we watch The Polar Express. For me, maybe it has something to do with teaching 1st grade, and seeing the kids get so excited about Santa Claus, or just remembering exactly what it felt like to wake up on Christmas morning and feel the magic of what Santa had brought, or even the year that we began to question how he really does it...But something about this movie strikes a cord with us every year. So we attempted to watch it with Sophia. I say attempted, because watching a movie with a 1 year old isn't something that goes over very well. The attention span is about 10 seconds long. So after the attempt, and Sophia going down for a nap, Matthew and I enjoyed this tradition. Even at (almost) 28 years old, I still get teary eyed during the last scene of this movie. I just love the message, about believing in the magic.
Cruising around the living room in her new car!